I would like to answer your points more deeply, not having much time for it now.
But I think you are avoiding a direct answer to the question why Java needs so much memory in the first place. You say about "developer's choice for a big heap", first I don't think it is their choice, but the consequence of the fact that such a big heap is needed at all, for a typical code. Why?
Let's code a basic https endpoint using typical popular framework returning some simple json data. Usually stuff. Why it will be consuming 5x - 10x more memory for Java? And, if one says it's just unrealistic microbenchmark, things go worse when coding more real stuff.
Btw,having more knobs for a gc is not necessarily a good thing, if it means that there are no fire-and-forget good defaults. If an engineer needs continously to get his head around these knobs to have a non-crashing app, then we have problem. Or rather - ops have a problem, and some programmers are, unfortunately, disconnected from the ops realm. Have you been working together with ops guys? On prod, ofc?
But I think you are avoiding a direct answer to the question why Java needs so much memory in the first place. You say about "developer's choice for a big heap", first I don't think it is their choice, but the consequence of the fact that such a big heap is needed at all, for a typical code. Why?
Let's code a basic https endpoint using typical popular framework returning some simple json data. Usually stuff. Why it will be consuming 5x - 10x more memory for Java? And, if one says it's just unrealistic microbenchmark, things go worse when coding more real stuff.
Btw,having more knobs for a gc is not necessarily a good thing, if it means that there are no fire-and-forget good defaults. If an engineer needs continously to get his head around these knobs to have a non-crashing app, then we have problem. Or rather - ops have a problem, and some programmers are, unfortunately, disconnected from the ops realm. Have you been working together with ops guys? On prod, ofc?