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You know what else expresses lack of consent?

Lack of consent.

It’s very sad how this “you consent unless otherwise stated” ideology keep growing and growing.

“We’re not spying on you, it’s just that you never expressed not wanting to be spied upon”.

Here’s a very educational video on how giving consent works: https://youtu.be/oQbei5JGiT8



Silicon Valley software developers have a huge problem understanding consent. Look at most dialogs presented for things that companies want you to do:

Do you want to enable Feature X?

1. Yes

2. Ask me again later.

Somehow, "no" is just not in their vocabulary. Imagine if "Silicon Valley" was a guy asking a woman on a date, and the only options he understood were "yes" AND "ask again later".


I did not consent to being talked to by a stranger earlier today. I did not consent to any replies on this comment that might follow. I did not consent to the music from my neighbour this afternoon. I did not consent to being barked at by my other neighbour's dog yesterday. I did not consent to a list of things longer than I care to name.

It's all about expectations: consent for everything is unworkable.

Equating some basic telemetry to rape is idiotic and offensive.


If we held tech companies to the same standards we hold for interpersonal relationships, most tech companies would be in prison.




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