Then maybe it's time to put down the keyboard and listen to the experiences of the people who have found some level of success.
When you've shipped a title that's moderately successful you're more then welcome to come back here and tell us how were doing it all wrong. Until then I find it hard to listen to the advice of someone who can't empathize with what is happening here.
Comments like this are equivalent to saying you cannot criticize a football players performance because you've never won a championship. It's illogical on many levels.